Secret?

“I’ve got nothing to hide”

It’s a narrative where that person is a free-ass-sickening-bitch

That’s penguin’s poo!

Everyone got something to hide, we have our own realms with plethora of secrets.

Secrets we seal and buried deep down under hoping it would not burst out because of society’s myth fabrication.

The anxiety of getting rejected and thrown out from society is probably one of the top problem in an individual’s life as a social being.

Seeing of what is going on for human is quite a progress in terms of freedom of expression, even-though there’s still a lot of clash between different perspectives, moreover a growing phenomenon of different niches of “-ism”. Bringing arguments and honest opinions toward other group is not always end in peaceful dialogue. ‘Tis what they called reserving to avoid conflict. That’s why sometimes a person don’t share their dark or traumatic experiences.

I believe there’s an art of how you do freedom of expression in public and political landscape in order to obtain the grand aspiration of humankind.

So too in individual level, there’s an art on how to build a relationship and having a quality reciprocal communication. Even a BFF relationship doesn’t even mean that they both have nothing to hide with each other, there’s a certain facade or dimension we need to hide. But build those relations one step of a time? And it will become a translucent diamonds (wth did I just say?)

 

 

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Learning Hypocrisy

I tend think that one of the decent human are people who spend all their life meditating. No idea what the purpose of it, but they look as if they had known the answer for the mysteries of life. For we live in this world just for a moment, of course it will not last forever. Resisting human crave and other intentions, because they already know the act is utter meaningless.

The popular monotheist’s grand aspiration is the afterlife. May not entirely true, but the main idea something goes like “good deed equals happy afterlife”. That’s it, there’s no other frills to think about. The majority of people in the world wouldn’t have to bother Capitalism if they believe the holy scripture is the absolute answer. Oh what a good world indeed if it filled with zealots, I’m sure it would feel like paradise on earth (ha ha).

Our modern civilisation mostly shaped by Capitalism that sprouts the fruit of innovations. We enjoy these innovations for granted and yes we thrive and fall from it. But innovations is just a mere glitter or toppings of life from the popular theism perspective and we actually enjoy it. Pampered by the touch of technology we assume that it might not be available in the afterlife so we accept it, make the most out of it while still living and use it without knowing the history behind it.

Living ostensibly normal is what humans good at.

Where the heck is the World going?

Economic Growth, Happiness, Welfare are few elements important people talks about especially in politics. Based on religion and human rights, we struggle to build the utopian world we dreamed. We dreamed that every single person in the world will have a good quality of living. But what is considered a good quality of living?

Nevertheless, the main thing that keeps the people live is by working, working to get money–a trust transformed into a valued tangible object with society’s consent.

Work, in context of economic, are a bunch of acts human do in order to get a sum of money.

Work, though, in a more modern concept is not just a process to get money, but also to do the process itself according to your passion and expertise. Those are connected to Happiness.

The reality, most people who live in the city (which is the majority) haven’t found the happiness they needed. Sure they get the money, spent it for good things they need. But their mental health is always at stake.

Is Economic Development the answer to human happiness? Or is it only to produce new kind/type of problems?

If Economic Development ≠ Happiness, Where the heck the World is going?!

A lot of choice in life, but do you have the guts to take the risk?

The inevitable part in a human life is deciding where it will go, do you enjoy the status quo that you’re living right now? Or you do have a plan but don’t know where to start and probably don’t want to take the risk.

The purpose is to get a better quality and meaning of life for yourself, everyone have their own meaning in life. One of the popular one is to contribute for others.

Besides meaning of life, people want to achieve high to get their needs, and in the end to get what Abraham Maslow calls “Self-Actualization”.

Trials and Tribulations is what we call the obstacle we face to achieve the needs. It is complex, multi-layered, multi-faceted, multi-dimension. Obstacles from technical, practical, political, social, cultural to spiritual. We sometimes scared to get out of our comfort zone and go through the norms. Misfit is not an option for the majority.

This attitude of “stay safe” in the status quo is what rooted inside of some of the new generations. Staying safe by conforming to the society made their anxieties and depression develop and let’s hope it will not go further to self-harm.

It takes most of your asset to take a huge risk, but time will pay what you have sacrificed